Raise your martini glass if you have a reoccurring pattern of self-doubt, negative thoughts, or making yourself feel like garbage...Well, duh, we've all been there. We've all compared ourself to a Kardashian, held ourself back from a hot opportunity because we didn't feel "good enough," muttered the words "What the f*ck is wrong with me."
#HeavyQuestionAlert. Are you ENJOYING your life? In last week's post we talked about how to enjoy your business more by outsourcing, but let's go deeper and talk about what's holding you back from having the funnest and most fulfilling life ever!
I can vouch for the theory that having more fun in your biz makes you more money, not to mention how much more inspiring and impactful you can be in you have a big gorgeous smile on your face! If you're doing your business full time, you're your only boss! Even if you're just side hustling, trying to get your biz off the ground, you are so in the driver's seat of making this happen! Are you a fun boss or a mean boss?
I am so happy to be back atcha' after as seriously life-changing trip to beautiful Bali, Indonesia where I hosted a transformation retreat with my business bestie, for 6 amazing women. I've returned from this trip a new woman for many reason which I will get into for you below, but the core message I want you to take away from this is that if something is in total alignment with your purpose (and your chakras obvi!), you can do miraculous things that you never even knew were possible for you.
I am finishing up this blog post on an air plane to Bali where my myself and my business bestie, Sofie, from Hot Rich Love Your Life Bitch, are hosting a life changing retreat for 6 women that are ready to share their message and launch a next level offer on a huge scale (make sure you follow me on Instagram at @humblebrandco to stay up to date with the Bali happenings!).
It's time to balance the Feminine and Masculine energies girl-friend!
If you've taken the massive step towards launching a business or deciding to launch a business, I'm giving you HUGE props! Like seriously, how cool is that? Not many people take any steps at all towards reaching their desires so give yourself a massive hug!
We are now 1.5 months away from our Hot Rich and Humble Bali retreat, and Sofie (business stylist for women that want a brand and business that truly stands out and has next-level success and Bali Retreat Co-Host) and I could not be any more excited!
I'm here to give you the kick in the Rag n Bones that you need today. If I didn't have my booty kicked into action I would still be working in a 9-5 so listen up!
If you're holding yourself back from doing big things that means you're letting fears and excuses take the wheel. Don't get me wrong, fears will always be there, they stick around like hair-frizz on a humid day, but they can be tamed with the right care (and serum).
In the spirit of glowing heart chakras, I decided to make this week's post super-duper fun by pulling some cards to tell you exactly where you should focus your energy this week for maximum heart-vibrating feels.
Here's how it works:
+ Take a look at the photo below. + Oogle over Sampson (yes, his name is as cute as his fuzzy face) + Once you're done oogling, take three deep breaths with closed eye, then look at the cards. + Notice which card you're immediately magnetized to + Check below to see your forecast!
'm wishing you a satisfying Christmas full of love, family, pretty things and egg-nog cocktails but let's face it, you're bound to at some point be stressed out. You have high expectation and massive to-do list and want everything to be perfect. I hear ya sister.
I want you to visualize your IDEAL Christmas, New Year's Eve and everything in between. What do you want to accomplish? How do you want to feel? What do you want in your stocking? Who do you want to kiss underneath the mistletoe? What do you want 2017 to look like?
I'm all about manifesting miracle these days so my gift you is telling you exactly how to manifest everything you GD want over the next few weeks! You ready?
Money fear is the #1 thing that holds new entrepreneurs back from reaching the success they deserve! All of this stress and anxiety lives in your chakras and you carry that sh*t around with you and let it factor into your decisions!
Do you ever feel so "alone" on this journey, like you have no support? If you're a solo-preneur, it's really easy to have the "no-one supports me" record on replay and it feels like sh*t.
I have some great news though! The Universe supports you and your inner guide supports you!! They've always been there, they might just be a little cloudy from the overwhelm, doubts, stress and bottle of Pinot Gris you pounded on the weekend to try and drown it all out.
Even when it feels like you're playing the guessing game in your life and your biz, you have the tools to tap in and be guided!
I AM SOOO EXCITED TO ANNOUNCE that in CELEBRATION of the new course I've created, Chakra-Love Masterclass, I am bringing you anotherFree7 Day Chakra Meditation Challenge!! Woooohooo!!
We start next Monday as a group but I'll be saving every video for you to take it at your own speed! SIGN UP NOW!
I've hosted this challenge before but this time it's going to rock your chakras to a new extreme! We're talkin' Live stream videos, live meditations, and some GREAT prizes including a SIGNED copy of "The Universe Has Your Back" by Gabby Bernstein, and my exclusive "Ultimate Money Manifestation Practice" ($197 Value).
+ A story of some ironic things that proved it to me last week
Last week was maybe one of the most "spiritual" weeks of my life and resulted in me finally trusting my inner guidance and I want you to do the same.
I've been posting so much lately about "Failure not being real" and to listen to the nudges of the Universe when something feels too forced. I was telling you ALL of that while I was sitting behind my lap-top, freaking the eff out about whether my e-course was going to reach enough people.
...before I started my self-improvement journey about a year ago, I used to be the QUEEN of thinking I was super cute and intriguing by joking about my imperfections.When I did it, my friends thought it was okay to do it.
I created my own low-vibration reality and it did NOT feel good! I didn't think it was funny, I was just masking major insecurities. I thought if I made fun of myself first it won't hurt as bad if someone makes fun of me.
YOU NEED TO STOP DOING THIS! Your words create your reality! If you're guilty of self-shaming, here are some tips...
How many times per week does fear make your decisions for you?
I'm letting you in on a secret, FEAR ARE NOT REAL! Will Smith (the Freshest Prince ever) said it best: "Fear is not real. It is a product of thoughts you create. Do not misunderstand me. Danger is very real. But fear is a choice."
Fear is stored in your root chakra and has been passed down to you from your ancestors who literally had to fear for their survival on the daily. Probably mostly because they didn't have cell phones.
When it comes to daily decisions such as whether or not to pursue a big goal, trust the universe, or trust yourself, the fear bubbles up and we mistake it for danger.
So I always tell you to "listen to the whispers before they become screams," which basically means trust your intuition and listen to what's guiding you to being the best GD version of your gorgeous self.
Do you know that YOU are the whisper that someone else is waiting to hear?
No matter how big of a mess you sometimes think you are (I feel that way on occasion too...particularly the morning after a cocktail sesh), you have lessons and gifts within you that people are waiting to hear so you can inspire them on a path to greatness! Yes, YOU!
It has never been easier or more satisfying to have a lifestyle, business and social media highlight reel that makes you look and feel like a total free-spirited girl-boss who's totally in charge of her own (fabulous) sh*t.
Somewhere along you way we started expecting EVERY day to run smoothly and for things to be easy-peasy so as soon as a little blip happens in the plan it's you think you are a haute mess that can't get her life together.
Maybe you are not exactly where you want to be in your business, career, relationship or life but there are 3 truths about the expectations you put on yourself and how you can manipulate them to make sure you are actually flowing towards the greatness you deserve rather than keeping yourself stuck…Here they are…